Empowering Women’s Health and Strength

In this episode of the Podcast, host Ed Watters speaks with Kim Rahir, creator of the Fabulous in 15 program, about the importance of physical strength for women along with how Empowering Women’s Health, especially as they age can help change your life. Kim shares her personal journey from being a journalist to becoming physically strong after battling autoimmune diseases. She discusses how her 15-minute daily workout program helps women overcome the obstacles of a hectic life, providing easy-to-follow exercises that improve mental and physical health. They also delve into the pitfalls of ‘healthy eating,’ the need for specific dietary goals, and the crucial role of maintaining muscle mass and bone density. And Empowering Women’s Health. Join us for an insightful conversation on how small, intentional changes can lead to significant health improvements.

00:00 Introduction: The Power of Education
00:55 Meet Kim Rahir: From Journalist to Fitness Advocate
02:16 The Fabulous in 15 Program: Simplifying Fitness for Women
04:25 Healthy Eating Pitfalls: Specificity Matters
06:17 The Importance of Muscle Mass for Women
11:42 Kim’s Personal Journey: Overcoming Autoimmune Diseases
17:12 The Benefits of Strength Training
19:57 Podcasting and Future Plans
22:13 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

You can also follow her on LinkedIn, Facebook and Instagram:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/kim-rahir/
https://www.facebook.com/kim.rahir/
https://www.instagram.com/kim.rahir/
If you want to get in touch directly, you can email Kim at
kim@kimrahir.com

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Ed Watters: To overcome, you must educate.

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Educate not only yourself, but
educate anyone seeking to learn.

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We are all Dead America,
we can all learn something.

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To learn, we must challenge
what we already understand.

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The way we do that is
through conversation.

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Sometimes we have conversations with
others, however, some of the best

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conversations happen with ourselves.

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Reach out and challenge yourself; let’s
dive in and learn something new right now.

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Today we are speaking with Kim
Rahir, she is the creator of

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the Fabulous in 15 program.

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Kim, could you please introduce yourself?

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Let people know just a little
more about you, please?

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Kim Rahir: Yeah.

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So I’m a sixty year old German
lady, mom of three, I live in Spain,

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um, and I used to be a journalist
for the longest time until I fell

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very ill with autoimmune diseases.

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And I had sort of two bouts with
that, um, was supposed to be taking

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lifelong treatment for quite some time.

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I’m off that now and I think that’s
in part because I decided to go

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my own way and become physically
strong, develop muscle mass,

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become really like insanely strong.

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Um, and when I was taking
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that I was onto something.

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So I started learning, uh, taking
online certifications, personal

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trainer certifications to be able to
help women around the world, um, get

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better, feel better, empowered, happier,
healthier also with the same system

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where it’s really just about building
physical strength and then have so many

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things, including your mental health,
will fall in place as a side effect.

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Ed Watters: I find that Fabulous.

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So let’s talk a little
bit about your program.

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What is it and why do women need it?

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Kim Rahir: It’s a very, very, um,
simple sort of baseline approach.

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And I think that’s what women need
because they’ve been overfed so much

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information, so much conflicting stuff.

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So, so many things they need to keep
in mind, or do, or eat, or not eat.

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And my approach helps you become strong,
mobile, um, uh, boost your energy

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levels in, you know, incredible ways
by just training fifteen minutes a day.

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It really doesn’t take more than that.

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And it’s an important part of getting
in shape because knowing what to

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do is only part of the problem, the
other part is actually doing it.

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Um, and I’m solving that problem by giving
you something that you can do in fifteen

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minutes in the comfort of your home.

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That way we lower the resistance,
uh, we remove most obstacles that get

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in the way when you want to change.

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So many women, they want to change,
they want to live healthier, they want

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to move, but they have such a tightly
packed schedule and they have some inner

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resistance too, because change is scary.

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So this fifteen minutes a day approach
takes all those sort of obstacles,

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most of those obstacles, out of
the way and make it easy to start.

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And then I will start you after
an assessment, so you will

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start exactly where you are at.

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I’m not going to prescribe just
any old program, uh, we’re going to

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really look what your situation is.

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And that is also very powerful
because when we reach middle age

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and we do those awesome workouts
from YouTube, and they are great, we

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tend to get hurt or very frustrated.

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Ed Watters: Yeah.

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I know as we age, things do get harder.

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You know, it’s not easy aging.

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But if we can age with grace,
that is really the big thing.

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It was counterintuitive when we
actually came across what you say

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is the pitfalls of healthy eating.

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What do you mean by that?

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Kim Rahir: The problem with healthy
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that it’s, it’s actually far too vague.

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When you are not twenty anymore, let
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specific and very intentional, uh, with
what you do and what you want to achieve.

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And healthy eating is,
it could mean anything.

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It means one thing for someone who’s
a diabetic, it means another thing for

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someone who is an endurance athlete.

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It means a totally different thing
for someone who has food intolerances.

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So healthy eating in general
is not helpful as a concept.

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And then so many women are really keen
on losing weight, dropping some, some

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of that weight that they’re carrying.

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And healthy eating is
not specific for that.

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You have to eat for weight loss
because even that is different.

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Now, you don’t want to stuff yourself
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protein bars just to lose weight.

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But still, the approach to losing
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healthy is a little bit different.

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And it has to be that specific because
as we age, our bodies, you know,

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react more slowly or differently.

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And we really have to find out,
What is my exact specific goal and

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how am I going to eat for that?

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Ed Watters: I like that a lot.

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That explains that in a good
fashion, very palatable.

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So now, I know getting older is hard
for both men and women, but women,

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they tend to be smaller in stature
than men with their muscle mass and

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all of this, so could you talk to
us a little bit about why it’s so

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important to maintain that muscle mass.

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Kim Rahir: Yes, absolutely.

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It’s, it’s health insurance
and it’s life insurance.

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And it’s all explainable by our
evolution, how we evolved as humans.

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We have always lived and thrived
in environments in where we

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were physically challenged.

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We, our bodies optimized for being
in movement every day, our bodies

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optimized for being, you know,
pushing stuff, pulling stuff, uh,

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lifting things from the floor, uh,
getting things down from up overhead.

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Um, and it’s not something where, you
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our world has changed so much that
we just, you know, sit all day,

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uh, we drive to work, um, even our
entertainment streams into our home.

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And then we want to be healthier,

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we want to do something, so
we start moving a little bit.

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Actually, from a health perspective,
the default situation, the optimized,

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the situation is the one where we move
as much as we can every single day.

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And, and because we evolved this way,
muscle is like the tissue of longevity.

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Um, it will improve your cardiovascular
health, your metabolic health, your

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bone health, your joint health.

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And we now know that, you know,
training for muscle, moving for muscle

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mass, even, um, really improves your
mental health in a big, big way.

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Um, I think the problem with women is,
um, a cultural one, actually, because

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we are not raised with this, with this,
um, ideal of becoming physically strong.

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We’re taught to be pretty
and cute and elegant.

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And when we have like nice
parents, they’re going to

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tell us to get an education.

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Um, but basically the idea
of being physically strong

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is not in our virtue catalog.

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Which is, um, also doesn’t make a
lot of sense because you would never,

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say, Oh, carrying around toddlers and
groceries is not feminine, you know?

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Women go to the gym,

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sometimes they pick up dumbbells
that weigh a pound and at home they

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carried pounds and pounds of groceries
or toddlers that, that weigh a lot.

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So it’s actually quite natural for
women also to, to be strong physically.

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But our culture has evolved in a
way where, um, it’s, it’s, it’s not

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like our first intuitive choice when
we start feeling age, when we start

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getting those health problems, when
the weight creeps up and we feel creaky

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and achy and, uh, and low on energy.

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Um, this is not the first idea that,
not the first thought, thought that

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we turn to, um, but it’s actually, I
call it the one stop shop solution,

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but, because it gives you so many
benefits and will take care of a lot

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of things with just one intervention.

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Ed Watters: That’s nice.

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Uh, now one thing that really makes
me curious is your bone structure.

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My wife, she has osteopenia, and it’s
kind of like osteoporosis, I guess.

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Now, this, women tend to have
issues with is that bone density.

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What, what can you do to help
that and maintain muscle mass

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along with your bone density?

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Kim Rahir: Yeah.

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It’s a one stop shop actually too, because
when you train for strength, when you

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load your body, your limbs, your, with
weight, um, you improve your bone density.

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Bone is, is very adaptive and the body
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support and it’s all about allocation
of resources actually in the body.

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It’s the, it’s the same in
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the same in the human body.

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It’s about allocation of resources.

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And the body will only allocate
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signals that they are needed.

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So if we do not load our bones, uh, the
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and, and keep rebuilding them, but it will
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So what, what we want to do
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bearing exercises and walking.

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And, uh, running will not cut it,
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You need to do some kind of lifting or
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you really challenge and stress your
muscles and your bones and then the

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body will respond with that allocation
of resources and make them stronger.

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Ed Watters: And, and also
pushing and pulling is a good

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category to be in on that.

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You know, pulling a wagon around
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that, that’s always a good thing.

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So tell me, Kim, what got you from being
a journalist into a coach like this?

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Kim Rahir: Well, I had like a
traumatic, um, incident, something

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really unpleasant happening to me.

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I was forty-five, I was
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My kids were small and I was struck
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next by what turned out to be a
syndrome, Guillain Barre, at the time.

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Which is a, one of autoimmune, um, attack.

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So my body started
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Um, I noticed this because I picked up my
kids from school and I was seeing double.

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So the muscles and nerves that
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had already been attacked.

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And then I was hospitalized.

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They were looking at what was
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quite some time, they weren’t sure.

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Um, and after three weeks in hospital,
I was paralyzed from the hip downwards.

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I couldn’t wiggle a toe.

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And they still didn’t really
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So that was, that was super scary.

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Um, and you end up
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You know, you tell them,
Come on, tell me what it is.

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This uncertainty is, is,
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But I learned an important lesson.

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I mean, at the time, I
didn’t see it that way.

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Today, I’m grateful for that experience
because what I learned the hard way is,

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you can be out of this in, you know,
one day from one minute to the next.

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When you’re a mom, I had three
kids, you always think, Oh, if I’m

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not there, nothing’s going to work.

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Everything’s going to collapse.

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I have to do everything,

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I have to be there for
everyone and for everything.

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Um, and I, I was not there
from one day to the next.

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I came home from the hospital for
Christmas and there was a Christmas

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tree and there were presents and, uh,
you know, and I hadn’t done any of it.

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So it had worked, and I find that
experience quite liberating actually.

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And it’s something, you know, I, I wish
I could sort of transmit that message

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to women who still think that if they
won’t be around, then nothing is going

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to, like the world will come to an end.

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It won’t.

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Um, and I think that can take
some of the pressure off your, off

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your life, because you know that
you do not have to do everything.

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So finally they decided it
was Guillain Barré which is a

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one of, it comes and it goes.

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And I was even lucky because
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Sometimes it can be ascending paralysis
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Um, it didn’t get that far for me.

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I got some treatment after this.

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Um, and then after a year, I
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of health and I was so grateful.

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I, I was, I already, I was much
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you know, when one day you complain
about having to do the dishes and

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the next day you’re paralyzed in
the hospital and all you dream about

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is being able to do the dishes.

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And with this clean bill of health,
I thought, Yeah, I’m going to, I’m

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getting a new shot at life, and
I’m going to make the most of it.

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And I think, I think I became a
cooler mom, and I took everything, you

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know, with a lot of, uh, detachment.

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Um, my quality of life improved, my,
like, my mental health improved because

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I, you know, I was able to, um, sort
of deal with situations, um, much more

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easily because you realize it’s all, at
the end of the day not that important.

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As long as, you know, as long as you’re
able to walk, oh my God, you don’t know,

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don’t, don’t complain about anything else.

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Then another year went by and
I felt my left hand going numb

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and I knew this wasn’t good.

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And, um, I went to the doctor
again, you know, you must know,

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this is all in different places.

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The first one was in Berlin, this one,
the hand going numb, that was in Paris.

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Um, and I was told after examinations
that this was, um, a different animal,

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that this was an attack of the immune
system on the white matter inside

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the nerves, and that this was MS.

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And I thought that was a really low
blow because I had been through this

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first thing, which was really traumatic,
you know, being helpless in hospital.

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To feel totally dehumanized and,
and you have absolutely no power.

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you know, behind this.

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I had, that I was over this, that
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And then I got this diagnosis,
which is even scarier because you

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have no idea where you’re going.

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You have no idea what’s
going to happen to you.

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And, um, the, the one thing, the
only thing that I, that I knew how

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to do after, after that diagnosis,
was not look into the future.

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I did not allow myself to look into
the future because it was too scary.

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I focused on the moment, on the day.

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I wanted to spend the day as, as
well as possible, spend it with

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my kids, make the most of it.

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experience and the powerlessness.

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Um, I decided that I was
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Do strength training.

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Armed myself with a book, one
of the first books that said

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women should lift heavy too.

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And I got stronger and I got better.

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I became so confident.

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And I think it was also the desire
to be able to rely on my body again.

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Because when you have autoimmune
issues, like your body attacking

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itself, it’s a bit like a betrayal.

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Like your body’s betraying you.

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We moved again.

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I had a Spanish neurologist, um, who,
and I was taking treatment for the MS, of

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course, you know, you get that diagnosis
you’re in for lifelong treatment.

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And after three years of watching
me, you know, sort of breezing

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through the checkups, he said, Would
you like to stop your treatment?

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Um, that was now seven years ago, I’ve
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and without relapses for seven years.

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A second, second lease on life.

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Um, I, I’m even more
grateful every single day.

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And that was also the moment when
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something here with what I did.

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And while I don’t claim that you can
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overall beneficial effects, and we
talked about this before, um, I felt

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this urge to carry this message out there
and, and tell as many women as possible

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and help as many women as possible
to, to use this one stop shop, um, and

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to, to become happier and healthier.

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You know, with this just very
simple, simple intervention.

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Ed Watters: I think it’s important
also that you touched on, you

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know, don’t worry about it.

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Stress kills the body.

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And I, I suffer from fibromyalgia
and that, that just comes, I

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basically see it coming more
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So stress can really affect
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Your mental, your physical, your
overall being is really about being

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at peace with yourself in many ways.

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So if we can find that, that,
that’s just truly a gift in itself.

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Kim, you used to be a journalist,
now you’re out here podcasting.

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You do this very well.

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Is there plans to incorporate a
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Kim Rahir: It’s interesting because
I got asked this question like

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three times over the last two weeks.

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Um, and I’m thinking about this.

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I, I, I think it’s something that I
enjoy, connecting with people, talking

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with people, like meeting you today.

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I know that it’s a big project.

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Um, and I’m going to look at that
when I feel ready because there’s

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so many very frightening statistics
about podcasts that die after episode

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three or something like this and I
wouldn’t want to be one of those.

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Ed Watters: Well Kim, I can tell you
just from discussing here today things

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with you, you’re good at this and you
have this desire to inform people and

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that’s truly what podcasting is about.

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You would have no trouble at all staying
engaged and I can see that pretty clear.

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Uh, podcasters, they get this
thing, they think they’re not

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worthy of holding the position.

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It’s, it’s an inferiority complex.

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And, you know, I don’t think
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You know what you’re doing and you can
engage and articulate very well what

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you mean and it can really help people.

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So I’m always pushing people towards
a podcast and you’re, you’re one of

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those that I really don’t feel that
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So I encourage you to look deeper into it.

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And you know, we’re out here helping.

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So, you know, the more we
discover who we are and what we

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can do, it’s truly a good thing.

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Kim Rahir: I totally agree.

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Ed Watters: Uh, Kim, do you have a
call to action for our listeners today?

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Kim Rahir: Yes.

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I, well, they can look at my
website, um, kimrahir.com and go on

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there to find a health assessment
to find out where they are at.

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So if you want to know how your
strength and your health is right

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now, I think that can be very helpful
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really very clear on where we stand.

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And we could be much stronger than we
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And this questionnaire is really
about how this whole thing

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integrates into your entire life.

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So it’s not about doing five pushups,
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do when you have to lift your, your
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How, just find out, you
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And then I can, um, give you a few tips,
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So that’s something,
um, you want to look at.

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Make sure you know where you start because
you want to change, you want to go from

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A to B, you need to know where A is.

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Ed Watters: And can you share
where people can locate you

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and, uh, get in touch with you?

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Kim Rahir: Yes.

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So the first one is my
website, kimrahir.com.

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And then with my name, Kim Rahir, you can
find me on Facebook and Instagram and,

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and, um, I share a lot of information,
tips and thoughts, um, a little bit

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of my own weightlifting adventures.

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Try to make it fun, uh, like
entertaining and informative.

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And you find me there
with my name Kim Rahir.

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Ed Watters: I really like what
you’re doing and I appreciate

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that you came on here today to
share it with us on the podcast.

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Thank you for being here, Kim.

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Kim Rahir: Thank you
so much for having me.

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Ed Watters: Thank you
for joining us today.

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If you found this podcast enlightening,
entertaining, educational in any way,

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please share, like, subscribe, and join
us right back here next week for another

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great episode of the Dead America Podcast.

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I’m Ed Watters, your host, enjoy
your afternoon wherever you might be.