In this enlightening episode of the Dead America Podcast, host Ed Watters sits down with Dr. Njideka Olatunde, a renowned naturopathic practitioner specializing in pain relief through touchology, reflexology, and holistic healing. Dr. Olatunde shares her powerful insights into the deep connection between stress and pain, explaining how understanding this relationship can unlock profound healing for individuals and communities.
Throughout the conversation, Dr. Olatunde breaks down her unique therapeutic approach, which blends touch-based healing, listening, and comprehensive care plans that may include chiropractic treatment, acupuncture, and dietary adjustments. She emphasizes that healing is not just physical—it is emotional, relational, and deeply connected to how we interact with ourselves and others.
Listeners will learn about the science and spirit behind touchology, the importance of positive human connection, and how simple supportive interactions can reduce stress and promote well being. Dr. Olatunde also highlights the urgent need to empower young people who are struggling with stress, offering guidance on how touch, play, and emotional support can help them build resilience.
This episode explores:
• The link between stress, pain, and emotional health
• How reflexology and touchology support natural healing
• Holistic approaches including acupuncture and nutrition
• The importance of play, connection, and letting go
• How listening and collaboration strengthen healing relationships
• Why empowering the next generation is essential for a healthier society
Whether you’re curious about natural remedies, seeking pain relief alternatives, or exploring holistic wellness, this conversation offers transformative insights into the power of touch and the future of healing.
Keywords: Dr. Njideka Olatunde, reflexology, touchology, holistic healing, naturopathic practitioner, stress and pain, natural remedies, chiropractic care, acupuncture, dietary healing, emotional wellness, Dead America Podcast, Ed Watters, youth stress support, healing through touch.
00:00 Introduction: Awakening Hearts
00:46 Meet Njideka Olatunde: Naturopathic Practitioner
02:46 Understanding Pain and Stress
04:34 The Power of Touchology
09:30 Holistic Healing Approaches
16:16 The Importance of Play and Letting Go
21:33 Touch and Connection in Relationships
29:29 Empowering the Next Generation
38:15 Healing Through Listening and Collaboration
41:31 Conclusion: Embracing Natural Remedies
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Can you feel it coming?
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Something’s waking up inside.
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Hearts ablaze, we’re standing tall.
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Breaking chains of yesterday.
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Dead America finds it’s voice,
in the darkness, we make choice.
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Truth and healing lead the way,
hearts ablaze, we’re here to stay.
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Rise from ashes, come what may,
we’re finding hope in disarray.
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Today, we are speaking
with Njideka Olatunde.
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Could you please introduce yourself?
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And let people know just a
little more about you, please.
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Greetings.
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And Ed, I wanna thank you for having
me as your guest on your show,
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and I’m looking forward to sharing
information with your listeners.
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I’m Njideka Olatunde, my background,
I’m a naturopathic practitioner
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and my specialty is relieving
pain using the power of touch.
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And the technique that I use is
called touchology, reflexology.
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Uh, I like it a lot.
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You know, after researching you,
I’ve, I’ve listened to a few of your
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podcast episodes, and a lot of this is
interesting to me because I’m a chronic
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pain patient myself and I, I have
been having that day to day and, you
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know, it just adds up when it happens.
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But a lot of that pain that comes
to me is from stress, you know, and
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if I’m not able to control my stress
levels, my pain just shoots up.
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And, uh, they, they call it, in the
medical field, uh, fibromyalgia.
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And it’s a widespread pain of the muscle.
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And it took me a long time to understand
how stress is related to my pain.
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Now I’ve got physical injuries that
just compiles and everything together
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just makes me sometimes useless.
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So talk to me about touchology and how it
can help me and others relieve our pain
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symptoms due to stress and physical pains.
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Well, what you just said is the
first key, understanding the
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connection between pain and stress.
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You don’t have pain without stress,
and you don’t have stress without pain.
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The two go hand in hand.
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And one of the things that’s real
important in terms of when you
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understand the connection between pain
and stress, you also have to understand
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that in order to relieve the pain
and stress which are connected, you
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also have to connect the mind, the
body, and the spirit as the healing
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component to relieving pain and stress.
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And that’s something we never really think
about because when, when you’re talking
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about pain, which you just said like
fibromyalgia in, in, in specifics, it’s a
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nerve, it’s about dealing with, the nerve
endings are not operating as they should.
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And the thing that we don’t understand
about the nerve endings and the nervous
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system, it is connected directly to
the brain, which is the message center.
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It’s our command center.
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It, the brain is what sends the
message to all the organs and systems
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of the body in terms of operation.
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So if a nerve ending is outta
sync, it’s going to cause havoc
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which results in the form of pain.
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Now, another way I can kind of
explain that to help your listeners
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understand what it is that I do
in my therapy, the focus is on,
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and you asked me about touchology,
the focus is on introducing touch.
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And the first form of touch,
when I see my clients, that I
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offer, it’s called listening.
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And the reason why I say that is because
when my clients come to me, they’re
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coming to me for one thing and one
thing only, and that’s pain relief.
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They’re not interested in anything else
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but relieving pain.
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And as a practitioner, it’s
important that we understand that.
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And we have to understand it from the
standpoint that just like when you go
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to store to make a purchase, you know
what you want and you go in the store
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to purchase exactly what you want.
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So when you come to a practitioner,
you are coming to purchase pain relief.
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And so I start my practice with
my clients by giving them my first
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form of touch, which is listening.
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And what I’m listening for is the
stress that’s connected to the pain.
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Once I hear the stress factor,
now we know what we need to do.
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And just as the client is talking
to me about all the things
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connected to their pain, they
are hearing their stress factor.
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But they’ve never thought
about connecting that
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to the pain because what you have to
understand is stress is always something
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that happens outside of the body that
we bring inside and we never connect it.
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So when you start feeling pain, that
what you brought inside the body,
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it’s trying to find a way to come out.
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And it comes out maybe in your
back hurting, or your neck
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hurting, or your knees hurting,
but that’s not a way to release.
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So what a reflexologist does is,
it’s looking at that nerve ending
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and trying to open up that channel
so that that, it’s a blockage, can
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move itself into where it needs to
go to release itself from the body.
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So in essence, a, a better way for me
to descriptively describe it so that
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you can understand is that, think
about electricity in your house.
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If it goes out, you automatically go to
the circuit breaker, flick the switch
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and the electricity comes back on.
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If it doesn’t, then you have to call
the electrician to come in and they’re
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gonna say, Okay, we got a wiring problem.
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We, we need to connect the wire so
that you can get the electricity.
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That’s what reflexology is.
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We work on the wiring of the
body, which are the nerve endings.
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And what we are looking is to get the
circulation flowing so that when the
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nerve endings sit, can communicate
effectively with the brain to do
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what it needs to do when a system
says, I need this or I want that.
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So that’s the whole concept.
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And if you think about it like
that, reflexology is like the
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electrician of the body and
that’s the format of how it works.
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Now, one of the things in terms of, if
someone’s having pain and you have to
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look at the stress factor, which I said
my first form of touch was listening.
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So after I listen and the client has
just, you know, shared all that’s
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connected with that stress that’s
causing them to be in pain, they’re
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now open to receive the pain relief.
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Which will be the touch part of
reflexology, working on the hands, the
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feet, and the ears, which is connected
to all the parts of the body that
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we stimulate those nerve endings.
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And so that your listeners understand,
if you ever look at a chart of the
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anatomy and look at the nervous
system, you’ll see how all the
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nerve endings begin in your head
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run straight through your body with their
ending points in the feet, hands and ears.
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And what we are doing is we are
stimulating those nerves that’s connected
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to wherever it is in the body that you
may be having stress or pain for relief.
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Now, once that happens, the next form
of the touch experience is, there’s
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no one therapy that can do it all, so
when I heard your stress, did I hear
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that you need a chiropractic alignment?
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‘Cause we got some bone structure.
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Or did I hear that you need to be
able to have an overall stimulation
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of the whole nervous system.
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You may need acupuncture.
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Or did I hear that, um, your diet
is not well, so we gotta look at,
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there, you need, we need to look at what
nutrients, what minerals, what vitamins
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may be needed to add to your system.
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Or do you need to have a cleanse, or do
we need to go look at body cleansing?
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Is that something that’s needed?
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Or do you just need some
rest and relaxation?
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All of this is about putting together
a comprehensive program, which is
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your treatment plan based upon the
stress that you have shared that
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we need to relieve to get you back
into optimum health and wellness.
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So that’s kind of an overview of the
process in terms of relieving, uh,
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pain using, uh, the power of touch.
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What I’m hearing is you are like the
electrician coming in and you’re searching
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the whole system for these breaks.
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And how often is it associated to stress
as, as to, say, an old injury per se?
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What is the leading factor in pain?
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Is what I’m getting at.
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Because I know that when you first
get injured, you have, you know,
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disruptions in the tissues and the
bones and the body heals itself.
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So when we deal with pain, are we
looking at this stress level as a leading
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indicator of pain in our life then?
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Basically pain and stress go hand
in hand, you can’t separate it.
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‘Cause if you think about it,
even when you have an injury, it
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happened because of something.
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You could have been playing sports
and you got an injury, you could
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have, uh, walked down the street
and all of a sudden you twisted an
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ankle or something, that causes pain.
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It’s always a stress factor and, and,
and, and, and we gotta understand stress.
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It’s not about being, stress being good or
bad, you know, it’s not about qualifying.
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It’s a stress, something that’s out of the
norm that connects with the nervous system
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and the nerve endings to deliver the pain.
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Let me give you an example to kinda show
you so that can maybe be a little clearer.
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Think about your funny bone in your elbow.
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If you hit it, what’s the first
thing you are going to do?
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Oh.
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You are gonna make a verbal response.
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Now when you hit it, that was the stress.
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You hit the elbow, then the message
travels up the nerve endings to the brain.
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Trauma, stress in the elbow.
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When that nerve ending sends that message
to the brain about the trauma in the
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elbow, the brain then sends its natural
pain relievers to go to that area.
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And the way you activate that is,
then you put your hand on, you
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start rubbing it, and that releases
the body’s normal pain relievers.
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So that’s the whole process when
we say stress and pain work hand
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in hand with each other, that you
don’t have pain without the stress.
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You don’t have the stress without
the pain, they go together.
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But then you look at, okay,
now I know what the problem is.
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What do I need to do to solve
the problem so I can get back
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to my natural state of wellness?
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Because that’s the optimum.
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But we, the thing, the missing piece
is we don’t work with our body and
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assist it in the healing process.
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And by not doing that, we make it
a lot worse than what it has to be.
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Very interesting.
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Yeah.
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That, uh, action to the trauma,
it, it’s very interesting.
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Our, our first response is that touch
and, and that, I’ve never really thought
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of that until just now, but that’s
an automatic principle in our life.
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To initiate blood flow and therefore
it, it can actually initiate
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healing more, more rapidly.
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So I, I really enjoy that a lot.
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So let’s, let’s talk about these
stressors in our life that can really
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change our overall health, because
it’s not just pain, it, it can cause
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so many issues in the body and we
don’t even recognize them sometimes
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because it doesn’t send the pain signal.
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It, it might be a bowel interruption or
something like that, and we just overlook
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that it’s actually stressors in our life.
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The, the big thing against stress is like
laughter or, you know, companionship.
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What, what are some of those
things that we can do to combat
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these stressors in our life?
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First of all, one of the things
I always tell my clients, We have
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a tendency, because we are quote
unquote adults, to get in a box.
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And that box is containing us to the
point that we, we live with the stress.
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We accept the stress as a reality
because, as adults, you’re supposed
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to be quote unquote serious.
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You’re, you know, I call it being sterile.
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What I say that we need to do is
we need to spend time letting that
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little girl and that little boy
inside of us come out and play.
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We forget what it was like to be a
child, and when you were a child, you
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were creative, you were inquisitive.
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I mean, nothing bothered you.
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You know, you just, you just lived.
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And that is the same thing
that we need to understand.
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So when you start talking about stress,
it’s because we’ve become so sterile.
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We’ve become so rigid.
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We, we’ve, you know, we, as I say,
especially now when we live in a situation
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of 24/7 doom and gloom, we are attached
to that and that, that makes us stressful.
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That thing, you know, in terms of letting
go, I mean, what’s going to happen is
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going to happen, but you don’t have to
participate in it so that it becomes
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something that’s going to happen to you.
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It’s about realizing you
can only do but so much.
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And whatever it is that you can do,
start with that and focus with that.
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All the other stuff is irrelevant.
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That’s where the stress comes in, trying
to deal with everything that’s going
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on around you and you know you can’t.
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Yeah.
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Drama in our life, you know, the, and,
and we love drama and, you know, a
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lot of that drama is external, like
you said, and we drag it into us.
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So I, I really found that that drama,
uh, family drama, you know, work drama,
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all of that, it can make us sick.
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So I found that just being myself and
being happy of who, what, and where
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I am is truly a key of a happy life.
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We’re not gonna be happy all
the time, and I accept that.
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Yeah.
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I tell people, I tell people, Put
a day on your calendar to be silly.
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It does not matter who sees you, how, what
they think of you, this is your healing.
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Be silly, have a silly day.
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I mean, you know, to be so uptight makes
you sick and you have to understand that.
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You have to know how to let go, be free.
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I, I, you know, there used to be
a time when everybody used to feel
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themselves being a free spirit.
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Go back to being a free
spirit, however you define it.
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Be free, define your
freedom and act on it.
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And it, and you don’t have to
qualify or quantitate it to
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anybody, this is just who you are.
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And those who are supposed to accept
you for who you are, those are the
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ones you’re supposed to be with.
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If anybody has a problem with
it, that means it’s cleansing
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time, it’s time to let it go.
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I like that a lot.
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You know, the muddy shoe life, an analogy
here I, I use all the time is life is
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like a muddy trail and we’re a muddy
shoe walking down this muddy trail.
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And the mud is people, places, and things.
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And if we don’t control, if
we don’t control those people,
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places and things with boundaries
in our life, it gets heavy.
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We’ve all walked in heavy
mud and it tires us down.
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So find a rock and scrape it off, and
that will lighten your load and you
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can be happier, freer and cleansed,
getting down the road of life.
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So muddy trail, uh, people,
places and things, we’ve got to
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control those things in our life.
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And if we don’t, we’re gonna be sick.
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Is that not the case?
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That is, that’s what’s
causing the sickness, you
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have defined it so elegantly.
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And to add to, you know, when I
talk about touch, we’ve got to
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understand touch differently.
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Touch is not just, I’m physically
touching, touch is mental, it’s
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physical, it’s emotional, it’s
spiritual, and it’s even financial.
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And we’ve got to understand
touch in a whole different way.
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And I say that to say, let me give
you some examples, say somebody is
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feeling bad and all of a sudden you
just put your hand on their shoulder
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and they feel so much better.
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That’s a touching moment.
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Say somebody is having a, um,
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they, they just got some bad news
and, and it, and it’s affecting them.
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All you have to do is go up to
them and say, You know what?
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It’s going to be all
right, I’m here for you.
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Something like that.
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That’s a touching moment that
uplifted them, made them feel better.
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You are going through a doorway and all
of a sudden somebody’s coming behind you
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and you hold the door for them, and all
of a sudden, oh no, they hold the door
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for you and you say to them, thank you.
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That’s a touching moment.
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We’ve got to understand it’s the
little small things that touch, that
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we need to understand is touching.
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And I say that to say, That
when you’re looking at the
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power of touch, it does heal.
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Because as a people, we need to touch.
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And because we are not touching,
that’s why we’re in all this
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craziness that we’re in now because
we are not touching each other.
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We are not connecting.
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And my unscientific study, as it
relates to that pandemic that we
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were in for two and a half years,
it’s a, because of the lack of
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touch, many people made a transition.
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Because I couldn’t see my
family member, that’s touch.
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I couldn’t talk to my
family member, that’s touch.
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I couldn’t even be in their presence,
that was an energy exchange, that’s touch.
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Those are the important things that
give us our healing, and that gives
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us the foundation for us to be able to
live the lives we are supposed to live.
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That’s how powerful touch is.
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I like that a lot.
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You know, we, we don’t go deep enough into
what our response and our cravings are.
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You know, we, we get the, you know,
addictions, the quick highs, and then
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that always plummets into the deep lows.
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But when we get that connection
and that touch, it is remarkable
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what happens in our life.
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And, you know, I’m, I’m about to enjoy my
fortieth wedding anniversary this month.
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Thank you to Theresa, my beautiful wife.
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And I’ll tell you half, maybe
even over half of our relationship
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together, was filled with turmoil,
and these trials, tribulations and
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it’s because we were relying on other
people’s vision of what we should be.
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And you, you outlined this
expression, if you will.
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You need to be able to express who you
are, not what somebody wants you to be.
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And that allowed my wife and I to
really get that connection and it showed
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us that it’s okay to be who you are.
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And when we support each other, allowing
us to be who we are instead of who we want
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you to be, we can really move mountains.
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And I, I really think that that’s
the direction our nation, our world,
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needs to go is this healing through
that touch that you just outlined.
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It’s so much more than
just a pat on the back.
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I, I love how deep you went into that.
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Once we come, thank you for sharing
the relationship with your wife because
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what you just shared, that’s about
touch because of the fact that you are
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able to exchange with each other, you
connect with each other, that’s touching.
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And, and to be in a relationship, it’s
a partnership that’s based on being able
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to touch each other mentally, physically,
emotionally, and even financially.
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You have to understand, and that’s
why so many people have problems
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in relationships because they don’t
understand the power of touch.
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And we have to put that back in our
lives as our foundation in terms of
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that’s what a healthy relationship is.
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This is, touch is what gives
you a healthy mind and body.
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It’s about touch, touch is so powerful.
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And I say this to say, That is
the one thing when it comes to
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healing that pharmaceuticals cannot
bottle, cannot market, and cannot
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package because it’s inside you.
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That’s right.
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Uh, I like that a lot.
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You know, the divisions in our
nation is, is something, well,
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you kind of said it, childish.
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And we, we are acting like children,
we’re not grown up about the situations,
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the actual needs in our world.
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And when we allow these divisions to
take over our mindset, we forget how
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to love and give that loving touch.
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And there, there’s historical evidence
of what we are going through right now,
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and I’m, I’m gonna say it’s World War
II, pre-World War II, and I’m here to
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say I don’t want that for anyone here.
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And if we are not able to say,
No, that’s not decent behavior.
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We’re in for some rocky roads,
let’s just put it that way.
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And I’m, I’m really wondering
how, how far our world will let
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this next round of hostilities go
before we find that touch again.
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You know, it’s something you
said that sparked a thought
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that came across my mind.
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Something that I’m very passionate
about is our young people.
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I’m gonna say this, and the reason why
I’m saying that is, because our young
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people are under some undue stress and
pain that we cannot possibly imagine.
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As adults, we can find outlets to relieve
our stress and pain, but our young people
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have not been shown what outlets are
available for them to relieve stress.
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I say that in, in conjunction with
what you just said and what you just
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presented about the world order.
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Our children right now are of
the adult mindsets in terms
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of moving things forward.
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We as adults are being silly
children trying to dictate, and
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control, and regulate them and they
are resisting and, as they should.
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Because the problem is, and the one
thing I know about young people,
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they have a serious problem with
you physically touching them.
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And you know why?
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Because we never spend the time
to positively touch our children
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mentally, physically, and emotionally.
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By, because that’s missing in
their lives, they only have the
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negative component of touch, which
is what we are doing as adults.
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We are showing them how you negatively
touch, not positively touch.
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And the way to change this is, which I
tell parents, adults, guardian, or anybody
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with children, Do the, the first powerful
form of touch that’s called listening.
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When you spend time listening to a
young person, you’ll be surprised
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at what you can learn from them.
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They are very aware of what’s
going on, they are connected.
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But you always come to them with, this
is what you should be doing, or this
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is what I did when I was your age.
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It worked for our time.
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This is a new time now, so we need
to connect with them by listening and
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then, not saying you have to agree
with everything they say, but listen.
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Because the thing that they want from
you more than anything is support
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and encouragement to move forward
in terms of where we need to go.
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That’s right.
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You, you know, I, I think you said that
so well, uh, as we are recording this.
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I just started to release season 24 of
the podcast, and I opened the season
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with a young man, Lawrence Harris.
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And I’ll tell you, this young man just
made my heart crumble because I, I see
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so much maturity in that young man that
I don’t see in our leadership today.
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And it gave me extreme hope in our
world because of our youth today.
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So just like you, I want to
congratulate them for being that strong.
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Uh, you shouldn’t have to be at that
age, but I will tell you because of
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the work you’re doing now, you’re
going to move mountains in our
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world when we need it the most.
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And I can honestly say now,
I have hope because of that
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young man that I interviewed.
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Uh, I really enjoy that.
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And it, it’s, it’s for me
personally, my life right now.
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What’s important to me is to be able
to put the work that I do on the table
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and pass it on to that next generation
for them to take it to the next step.
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Not do what I do, I’m giving you a
foundation, take it to where you wanna do.
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And guess what?
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I’m sitting in my rocking chair
supporting you 100% and I’m here
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for you ’cause I know the pitfalls.
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I can tell you how to avoid the
pitfalls, that’s how we need to be
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interacting with our young people.
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Whatever our talents or skills
are, give it to them and help them
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take it to the next level because
you know what they’re gonna face.
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But you can, you can be the
one that can be their armor of
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protection as they move forward in
making this world a better place.
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Yeah.
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You know, and authority sometimes
don’t know when to pass the
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authority on to the next generation.
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And, and that’s where we are right now.
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And I can say that we’re, we’re really
seeing a shuffle of the minds, if you
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will, where this old guard that’s been
doing the same thing for forty to fifty
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years needs to crumble and pass it on to
these bright young individuals that are
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showing so much prospect in our world.
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And we, we need to stop looking at the
profit and start looking at the people.
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I, I really think that’s really big.
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And when you look at the
people, you now move away from
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focusing only on the problem.
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You now can start looking at,
okay, I know what the problem
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is, now where is the solution?
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We need to be talking about Solutions.
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And solutions are the people.
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That’s the solution, dealing with the
people is how you get the solution.
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And so to spend time always talking
about the problem, it’s what
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causes the pain and the stress
because you are in a stuck mode.
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That’s what I talk about being
in the box, it is comfortable to
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keep on talking about the problem.
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But when you talk about
solution, that means you have
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to start putting some action.
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Solution means providing action.
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That’s right.
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You know, and that’s, that’s
what we’re doing here today.
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And so many excellent podcasters
are actually starting to put
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their voice out there and say, No.
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00:36:42,750 –> 00:36:49,410
The regular news and the cycle that
we’ve been stuck in is not right.
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And when we are brave enough to
stand up and start speaking the
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00:36:55,290 –> 00:37:01,710
truth as we know it, that’s when
we start finding these solutions.
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00:37:01,890 –> 00:37:06,720
And the key, like you said, listen.
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When we listen, we can discover.
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If we’re always just talking, we
never know what we’re fighting for.
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So if we’re listening, we’re
actually in a discovery mode.
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00:37:24,030 –> 00:37:30,255
And that is really truly where we
need to be, listening to people,
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00:37:30,405 –> 00:37:35,295
finding out where those problems
are, and coming up with these divine
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solutions because they’re there.
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And, and there’s the resources and
there’s the manpower that no one
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00:37:46,245 –> 00:37:48,675
should be struggling the way we are.
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00:37:48,675 –> 00:37:55,365
So these systematic approaches need
to crumble and let new ideas come in.
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00:37:57,150 –> 00:37:59,640
And that’s called the power of touch.
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Yes.
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00:38:02,340 –> 00:38:03,300
Uh, amen.
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00:38:03,300 –> 00:38:03,930
I like it.
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00:38:04,620 –> 00:38:11,880
So is there anything else that
we should let our listeners
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understand before we wrap things up?
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00:38:15,775 –> 00:38:21,030
One thing I’d like your listeners
to really understand as it relates
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to healing, I always tell my
clients that you’re gonna have
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to stop going to your doctors
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00:38:34,785 –> 00:38:38,925
and taking your body there
like it’s an automobile.
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00:38:39,765 –> 00:38:45,385
And I say that to say is when your car
breaks down, it has an engine light on,
447
00:38:45,385 –> 00:38:47,225
or something’s clanking, or something.
448
00:38:47,585 –> 00:38:49,845
The first thing you do, you
take it to the mechanic.
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00:38:50,174 –> 00:38:51,585
The mechanic is what?
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00:38:51,825 –> 00:38:53,475
Mechanically inclined.
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00:38:53,475 –> 00:38:57,915
So if you say this is what’s wrong, they
automatically know what they need to do.
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00:38:58,515 –> 00:39:02,745
If you’re in pain, you can’t walk into
your doctor’s office and say, Oh, my
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00:39:02,745 –> 00:39:09,045
back is aching, and they’re automatically
supposed to know what to do to relieve it.
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00:39:09,525 –> 00:39:12,734
You’ve got to go into
your doctor’s office with
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the mindset that you know you want
relief and you want, you’re gonna
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00:39:22,710 –> 00:39:25,170
need to work with your doctor.
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00:39:25,170 –> 00:39:31,920
Don’t just put your body in your doctor’s
hands, work with your doctor hand in hand
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because it’s gonna take the two of you to
bring about the solution that you need.
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00:39:37,530 –> 00:39:44,415
You’re gonna have to see your doctor
as the person who is assisting you as
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00:39:44,415 –> 00:39:51,044
you assist your body in the healing
process, and that’s how healing begins.
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00:39:51,464 –> 00:39:56,984
Because when you go in there and you,
you know you’re in pain, the first thing
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00:39:56,984 –> 00:40:02,174
the doctor’s going to say to you, because
a doctor does not do the first form of
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00:40:02,174 –> 00:40:07,095
healing, which is listening, so when you
go in there, you tell the doctor, I got
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00:40:07,095 –> 00:40:09,225
pain in such and such a place in my body.
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And what’s the doctor going to say to you?
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00:40:12,390 –> 00:40:15,540
Well, we are gonna need to do some tests.
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00:40:16,500 –> 00:40:20,670
But in the meantime, here’s
a prescription for your pain.
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00:40:20,670 –> 00:40:26,100
Now, I don’t even know what’s causing
your pain, but I give you a prescription.
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00:40:26,370 –> 00:40:33,900
You have to understand that you want
the doctor to assist you because you are
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00:40:33,900 –> 00:40:37,575
the only one that can heal your body.
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00:40:37,935 –> 00:40:43,275
All we do as practitioners is work
with you and give you the guidance
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00:40:43,275 –> 00:40:45,915
and support for the healing to begin.
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00:40:46,185 –> 00:40:51,405
When you understand that, then
you have taken back control of
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your wellness to where it belongs.
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00:40:53,895 –> 00:40:56,895
Inside you and with you.
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00:40:57,675 –> 00:40:58,995
Yeah, I like that a lot.
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00:40:59,415 –> 00:41:05,535
You know, you really need that
relationship in any healing journey.
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00:41:05,985 –> 00:41:13,545
So if you work in conjunction with each
other, it’s gonna go a lot quicker,
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00:41:13,545 –> 00:41:16,545
easier, and you’ll heal a lot quicker.
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00:41:17,265 –> 00:41:27,255
So Njideka, is there a place where people
can reach out to you, get involved and see
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what you’re doing, and, uh, get your help?
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00:41:31,995 –> 00:41:38,130
Well, the first thing I want to do, or
to share with you, there’s a, in, in the
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00:41:38,130 –> 00:41:43,800
African culture, when you visit somebody’s
home for the first time, you bring a gift.
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00:41:44,340 –> 00:41:47,910
So I come with a gift for you
and your listening audience.
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00:41:48,360 –> 00:41:54,025
I have put together what is called
a medication/addiction- free poster,
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00:41:55,365 –> 00:41:59,355
it’s a chart for you that helps you in
terms of you’d like to find some other
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00:41:59,355 –> 00:42:03,915
alternatives in terms of relieving
pain without dealing with a medication.
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00:42:04,185 –> 00:42:10,875
And all you have to do is go to
touchologyreflexology.com and download
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00:42:10,875 –> 00:42:15,134
the poster, that’s my gift for me
spending time with you here today.
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00:42:15,735 –> 00:42:20,924
The other thing is, I have a book,
which is called Reflexology Today, A
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00:42:20,924 –> 00:42:27,105
Family Affair, which is, which breaks
down how you can use reflexology as an
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00:42:27,105 –> 00:42:29,924
alternative in relieving pain and stress.
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00:42:30,404 –> 00:42:38,265
And with, you can go to my website to get,
to get the book, it’s focusonhealing.com.
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00:42:38,714 –> 00:42:45,725
And what I encourage everybody to do,
go to my website, focusonhealing.com.
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00:42:45,740 –> 00:42:50,990
And I suggest to you, go to my
contact page if you have any
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00:42:50,990 –> 00:42:55,760
questions, any comments, anything
that you wanna know about relieving
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00:42:55,760 –> 00:42:58,760
pain using the power of touch.
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00:42:59,150 –> 00:43:01,610
Send me your questions,
send me your comments,
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00:43:01,670 –> 00:43:04,430
I will get back to you ’cause
I’d love to hear from you.
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00:43:04,850 –> 00:43:09,840
And I, I’d say that to say, you
know, in terms of, the thing
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00:43:09,840 –> 00:43:13,260
that I’m on, this, like, what I
could say, it’s like a movement.
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00:43:13,290 –> 00:43:16,560
We’re, we’re, we’re talking
about putting the power of touch
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00:43:16,560 –> 00:43:19,680
back into our wellness agenda.
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00:43:20,130 –> 00:43:26,310
And the way we do that is by having
conversations in terms of how we
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00:43:26,340 –> 00:43:28,830
see touch, how we understand touch.
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00:43:29,130 –> 00:43:33,150
And once we start that, we can
turn this whole thing around.
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00:43:34,020 –> 00:43:38,490
And, and so I, the thing that I say, and
thanks to you for having me as a guest
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00:43:38,490 –> 00:43:44,070
on your podcast, is for the listeners
to understand that the power to heal
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00:43:44,070 –> 00:43:50,400
is inside you and to always remember
that the power of touch heals all.
510
00:43:51,840 –> 00:43:52,650
That’s right.
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00:43:52,920 –> 00:43:57,300
You know, Njideka, you
are a fantastic guest.
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00:43:57,660 –> 00:44:04,470
You have a lot to offer, and, you know,
people need to understand more about
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00:44:04,590 –> 00:44:11,190
touch and you outline so much more
that we don’t recognize about touch.
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00:44:11,220 –> 00:44:17,970
I really enjoyed that aspect of
our conversation today and I can’t
515
00:44:17,970 –> 00:44:21,390
thank you enough for being here,
part of the Dead America Podcast.
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00:44:22,515 –> 00:44:25,185
My honor and privilege, I thank you
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00:44:27,624 –> 00:44:27,694
Yo.
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00:44:27,694 –> 00:44:31,104
Dr. Njideka, you know the place.
519
00:44:31,104 –> 00:44:33,425
This word for the healers in here.
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00:44:34,995 –> 00:44:37,549
Natural vibes your foundation.
521
00:44:51,210 –> 00:44:57,259
Ancient wisdom meets modern pain,
no pills needed, break the chain.
522
00:44:57,259 –> 00:45:03,039
Dr. Njideka, here’s the way, mind,
body, soul, and our money sway.
523
00:45:03,039 –> 00:45:06,710
Opioid free, the futures here today.
524
00:45:07,080 –> 00:45:15,310
And try to forstall the chemical
thing, and check out the answering.
525
00:45:15,310 –> 00:45:18,440
From root to tree, from earth to sky,
traditional knowledge can’t deny.
526
00:45:18,800 –> 00:45:21,875
Whole body healing, that’s no lie.
527
00:45:22,265 –> 00:45:27,680
Natural remedy that’s the key,
unlocking what’s supposed to be.
528
00:45:27,680 –> 00:45:33,839
Balance and peace internally,
ancient truth set me free.
529
00:45:34,560 –> 00:45:35,325
Natural remedy,
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00:45:39,480 –> 00:45:40,350
naturally.
531
00:45:40,740 –> 00:45:46,049
Let the suffering end this time,
people searching for relief to find.
532
00:45:46,109 –> 00:45:52,520
But the answer been here from long
ago, grandmother wisdom, let it flow.
533
00:45:52,850 –> 00:45:56,120
Holistic, but that’s how we go.
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00:45:59,180 –> 00:46:04,460
No dependency, no side effect,
just pure intention and respect.
535
00:46:05,150 –> 00:46:10,700
The body know it heal itself when
we trust in the natures wealth,
536
00:46:10,940 –> 00:46:13,790
spiritual health bring physical health.
537
00:46:14,540 –> 00:46:19,465
Natural remedy that’s the key,
unlocking what’s supposed to be.
538
00:46:20,290 –> 00:46:26,130
Balance and peace internally,
ancient truth set me free.
539
00:46:26,580 –> 00:46:32,660
Natural remedy, naturally.
540
00:46:38,620 –> 00:46:38,850
Mind
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00:46:43,029 –> 00:46:43,390
clear,
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00:46:46,480 –> 00:46:50,350
body strong, soul at
peace where it belong.
543
00:46:51,490 –> 00:46:57,259
Integration, that’s the song, right
from the start we’re near all along.
544
00:46:57,459 –> 00:47:03,130
Dr. Njideka showed you the way forward,
combination of old and modern word.
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00:47:03,130 –> 00:47:08,745
No reject progress, no reject root,
find a balance, that’s the truth.
546
00:47:09,555 –> 00:47:17,355
Present day, they need ancestral
truth we don’t need to suffer
547
00:47:17,355 –> 00:47:18,785
endlessly, when nature offers energy.
548
00:47:18,785 –> 00:47:24,555
Break the chain of dependency,
choose the part of family.
549
00:47:24,945 –> 00:47:28,155
Conscious healing set me free.
550
00:47:28,395 –> 00:47:33,340
Natural remedy that’s the key,
unlocking what’s supposed to be.
551
00:47:34,125 –> 00:47:39,975
Balance and peace internally,
ancient truth set me free.
552
00:47:40,695 –> 00:47:41,450
Natural remedy,
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00:47:45,675 –> 00:47:46,515
naturally.
554
00:47:46,695 –> 00:47:52,275
Hope flying free, the futures here today,
mind, body, soul are all on it’s way.
555
00:47:52,365 –> 00:48:04,874
Dr. Njideka heals the way,
natural advice every single day.
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00:48:04,874 –> 00:48:06,404
RESPECT!